About
“Be a voice. Not an echo”
― Albert Einstein
Hi, I’m Pam. A recovered people-pleaser of the highest order.
I spent years following the unspoken rules I learned when I was little. Rules like, be sure to blend in, don’t make waves, and don’t take up too much space. I was taught that "little girls should be seen and not heard," that standing out was risky, and that playing it safe was the smart choice.
So, I played along. I worked hard, kept my head down, and did everything I could to meet expectations. I stayed in relationships that weren’t right for me because I felt not good enough. I stuck with jobs that didn’t inspire me because I questioned whether I was capable of something bigger. Settling became second nature.
The Moment Everything Truly Shifted
The first time I worked with a coach, I realized I wasn’t stuck in that space of settling or people-pleasing because I lacked talent or potential. I was stuck because I believed all the stories. They were just ideas I had been carrying for years, never stopping to question whether they were true.
What if I was capable of more? What if I could create a life that felt aligned instead of just acceptable? What if success didn’t come from doing what I was supposed to do but from trusting myself enough to do what I wanted to do?
That realization changed everything.
With coaching as my secret weapon and my coach as a collaborative partner, I stopped second-guessing whether I was “ready.” I started making choices that aligned with what I actually wanted instead of what I thought was expected of me. And the more I trusted myself, the more momentum I built.
Helping Others To Elevate Their Mindsets
Since 2005, I’ve worked with so many leaders, entrepreneurs, and coaches who, like me, knew they were capable of more but felt caught in the cycle of overthinking, hesitation, and self-doubt. They had big goals and bold ideas but felt stuck navigating the “what-ifs” and the pressure to get everything right.
I know that feeling. I also know how to break through it.
I’ve worked with high-achievers who felt like they always had to prove themselves. I’ve coached brilliant, driven people who hesitated to take the next step because they feared making the wrong move. I’ve helped leaders and entrepreneurs stop overthinking and start creating success in a way that feels fulfilling, not just impressive.
With neuroscience-backed strategies, mindset shifts, and practical experimentation, I help people stop waiting and start moving towards what matters most to them.
If You’re Ready
You don’t need to wait until you feel perfectly confident. You don’t need another reason to prove you’re capable. You already are.
If you’re ready to trust yourself, take action, and create momentum that lasts, I’d love to support you. Together, we’ll clear out the self-doubt, get clear on what you truly want, and build the confidence to go after it.
Because success isn’t about waiting for the right moment. It’s about deciding this is your moment.
P.S. And if you're looking for more "formal" information (i.e., education, certifications, etc.), click here.
P.P.S. I want to thank Influence Digest for naming me one of the Top 20 Business Coaches in Phoenix. It is an amazing honor!
